Do you remember how the old song goes? “Hello dildo, my old friend, I’ve come to play with you again,” or something like that. Masturbation is an essential part of every (well, almost every) woman’s life, but it’s a lot more than just dildos, fingering, or vibrators.
Playing with yourself can be an exciting and fun experience that you can only benefit from. Some studies prove that masturbation can have a positive impact on your physical and mental health.
Unfortunately, once you fall into a certain routine, masturbation can become a little bit dull. Don’t worry, though, there are lots of ways to spice things up with yourself, and in the article below, you’ll find a few examples.
Check out the ways
Experiment With Sex Toys
Sex toys are much more than just dildos and vibrators, and experimenting with them can boost your masturbation experience incredibly high. Clit suction toys, butt plugs, g-spot toys, rabbit vibrators, or anal beads are just a few examples of how to spice things up.
And if you’re looking for a more intense experience, you can also buy yourself a sex doll. Answering your question, yes, there are male sex dolls. They may not be toys in the traditional meaning of the word, but real sex dolls will take your masturbation into the next level.
Try Different Positions
Plenty of women masturbate lying on their bed when, in reality, it’s only just one of the available options. Sex positions aren’t just for couples, and you can implement them when playing with yourself.
Various positions can give you different sensations. And if you want to spice things up, trying some of them can help you achieve that goal. Mix different positions with sex toys, and you’ll realize in no time that masturbation can be as exciting as sex.
Push Your Limits
It’s understandable that once you find out your favorite position, toy, or technique, you don’t want to experiment anymore. You fall into the routine and find yourself in your closed comfort zone, which, in reality, is not such a bad thing.
But to spice things up, you should push yourself a little bit, and get your hands dirty (pun intended). Maybe there are positions, toys, or places you’ve always wanted to masturbate, but you’ve been too afraid to do that.
Try leaving your comfort zone and experience sensations you’ve never even dreamed of. And speaking of comfort zones…
Play Hide and Seek
Well, not literally, of course. Hide and seek is a metaphor for going public and adding the adrenaline element into your masturbation experience. You can try playing with yourself while at work, public toilets, or other similar places.
The element of possibly getting caught can be arousing and provide you with intense sensations. You will also feel like you’re doing something naughty and forbidden, which may be a huge turn on.
Discover Your Butthole
For many women, anal sex is still taboo, but once they discover how amazing it is, they don’t want to stop. The same thing applies to anal masturbation. The idea of putting something through your back door can be off-putting to some women, but there are reasons why someone invented butt plugs.
Keep in mind that the inside of your anus is incredibly sensitive, and even little stimulation can bring you intense sensations. Start with your fingers, butt plugs, and slowly move up to bigger toys. Oh, and don’t forget to use the lube.
Lights, Camera, Action
Don’t worry; you don’t have to become a trending Pornhub pornstar (unless you want, of course). All you need to do is turn on your smartphone and record yourself when masturbating.
This will allow you to watch yourself as you climax over and over. You can turn this into your fantasy or send it to your partner to turn him or her on while they’re away.
Just don’t send it to your mum by mistake.
Edge Yourself
Edging is a masturbation technique when you stop masturbating just before the climax and then repeating the drill until you’re ready for orgasm. It’s a great way to intensify your masturbation and make it last longer.
You can also treat it as training to prolong your sex. What’s more, edging can often lead to multiple and more intense orgasms because your body feels aroused and relaxed at the same time.
Practice Makes Perfect
You can’t become a true masturbation expert in just one night. There are so many techniques of pleasuring yourself that it’s going to take some time to try them all.
Always take your time and combine various positions, toys, and techniques to get to the ultimate pleasure experience. Don’t be afraid to experiment and keep looking for different ways to play with yourself.
What are you waiting for then? Reach for the dildo you’ve hidden under your bed and spice things up. Treat yourself. You’ve earned it.
